garmin times get a lot of crap for not getting nice guy eyes and for not only not dating nice guys but specifically staying away from nice guys because face a lifetime somebody's just junit east cell talk a little about why the hot girl to do that and and yeah that's that when i was talking about it let's do that that the other thing that i would love this article is from the college magazine and it saying you know like there's always that guy in your class or at the word that you know in your personal life earlier who is who is doing everything for you know and and being super sweet it is always thinking of you know anita's automatically put 'em in the friend down mean everything and eating and using just depends as nice guy and that girls off and it wants somebody who's like more of a bad morning kind of a rebel might have a lot of confidence in and back at healy trans quickly translate into being copy and not just confidence characteristics that i think that that is true i think are all the hard you know what you leave fault praying to you the bat boys and then mean that games and it's like this weird self-deprecating relationship where like amorim the crap here they are to you like the more you want them to like use of the it's just like this weird thing the girl who are all still redrew think that you don't deserve anything better on that's has whose lives in a big big breakdown your substance are set uh... i think it did uh... i totally understand some of this but bothers me when you talk about this because the conflict so many different things obviously a nice guy in the traditional sense is boring to win relates being bored so totally makes sense that they would be into but when you start talking about the sorts of guys they do wat i think that they include too many things in this one image of the bad boy the rebel uh... and audino women who've been with the wrong kind of guys at very rarely classified and as a rebel they do drugs ok lots of people do drugs buddy that's not be technique rebellious or they don't have a job or they have a kid that they don't take care of or in a certain behaviors that wouldn't think like always such a rebel rebel is never going to being a living human being in society and that uh... that's not necessarily uncorrelated with confidence like you can be confident and not be people i guess is my thing so i think that there's a middle ground between these i think is much more appealing in the long run as a guide and shit together yeah but doesn't just kneel down before women at all like you know when the time to put it up but um... but then you're already in there so whatever yahaan anyway do you think that i'm being too hard on their own interests gardening i repeat and i know we find is that something but let me know carole don't get enough friday because i want to come to you are like today nice guy is not every girl wins just like a total failure and that way and just that screw-up in life and sudden jenna marbles also has a video about this and i think it was about life how did the local area an uh... she says dishes like that just because you're nice doesn't mean that everything else about you is why do you think you can just be nice in expect everybody wanted to you because when i saw a girl while a lot of people are nice and that doesn't make up for other bad qualities maybe you're just going after the rock and a girl like if you're a nice guy collateral brother like thank god they stop going after bills are on their own planing of running and playing and i thought you might me tell us about ways rightly i don't know if they're bitchy yet until you actually pursue them that's that's part of the details for solidified so here's the thing as the police from what i've learned in my fabulous twenty four years of being on the surface for key event for allied waiting ralph wisdom and that was the ring this is a fun firstly as i said you're not gonna know unless you actually pursue them but here's a pic you can be a nice to do but you also data know that every girl who likes the chase and but it's it's all game that to begin so you have to be incredibly patient and you'd like but you can corner girl there's nothing wrong with that girl woman whatever it doesn't matter but that's totally fine but you have to understand that every girl likes the chase eating just you can't give internet everything in the beginning you know you have to keep yet the keeper guessing girls she's just conduct is alright but poppin them not to call like america to go out like it not literally lining that is true i mean like that you happy you have to keep in death