We all have limitations, what are your limits, not limitations you have, but the limitations you set for yourself. This is Dr. Paul, author of Boomer Girls, A Womens Guide to Men and Dating. How to define a deal breaker? What is your definition of your deal breaker and we all have them? They may be I'm in a dating scenario and I'm going to let the person know that I'm seeing that I do not want kids, that's a deal breaker. I'm in a dating situation and I see this person has tattoos, I hate tattoos, that's a deal breaker. The same thing may be for people of religion that is different from your own and may be a deal breaker, it may be something that later down the pipe you don't want to live with and so make that consideration known up front, if not to the other person at least to yourself. You know, maybe it's implants, you don't like that, maybe it's something about a person's conversation that you don't like, but there's a deal breaker there someplace. There's a limitation that you have and we all have them. There's certain things that we prefer and certain things that we dislike. If there are things that we dislike, we have to be honest with ourselves. The worst thing you can do is to not be yourself, because it really undermines you as a human being, it undermines your self esteem. Set your limits and stay with them. Make your commitments to yourself, you'll be a happier person. This is Dr. Paul may your fantasies of today, be your realities of tomorrow.