Bad guys, did I tell you exactly who they are but you just don't want to pay attention my grandmother used to say that all the time. If somebody tells you who physically shows you or tells you who they are, believe them. If you don't believe them, that's your fault. (music) You start dating somebody and you know that maybe you want to have a relationship with that person, right or you know that it is not going to go anywhere. But that doesn't guarantee that that relationship is going to work. My last relationship I was totally like okay, I'm going to feel my gut reaction but I'm going to do what I want to do and if this fails, it's because I didn't listen to my gut. So what happened with that relationship though? It failed I kind of just take it a day at a time, 'cause it gets to the point where you have all these grand expectations of yourself, of the other person and your body will say he's great and then three months down the line you find out that were just horny and you lied to yourself. Have you been in that situation?. (laughter) How do you protect yourself and make sure you're asking the right questions of people before you date them or get involved with them? I mean do we all My girlfriends are I we have a pact. What do you do? Anytime any one of us goes out with someone new, we have to let one of our people in our circle know the guy's name, his car, what kind of car he drives, the license plate and like and his cell phone number. Wow, that's smart. You know what, I really like that, I think that's a really good thing because you know there's a lot of random weird stuff out there and just I would do that for any friend. I'd want to know, that's a really idea. (music) Watching the women talk in the round table discussion, I thought they had wonderful ideas about how to keep safe dating today. Letting your friends know where you're going to be, letting people know what time you're expected to be home. Making sure that they know what the guy's is that you're going out with and maybe a couple of details about who his is, where he works, how you met him, what website if you did meet him though the internet. When we first meet someone and we're really attracted to them, there is a whole hormonal change that happens in our body. Your adrenalin kicks up, you're feeling really sexually attracted to them. You're not really thinking straight. So you want to slow down if you can. One thing that needs to be thought when you're dating is alcohol. Alcohol is often around at a bar, at a party when you're first meeting someone, getting to know them. How do I want to go home tonight? Do I want to go home with this person? Do I want to go home to my own home? Alcohol can oftentimes change your mind throughout the evening and put you into a situation that you might regret the next day. It's really important to feel confident about the decisions that you make when it comes to sex. (music)