Dr. Phil McGra et me introduce April. She is a dating expert, specialist, top of the game. She is the best of the best. You may have seen her on the show before. And this is April right here. [music ne, two, three, four. April Beyer-Dating Coach & Personal LA/SF Matchmaker Dr. Phi pril Beyer, she’s a dating coach and she’s founder of Beyer and Company, which is a personal match-making and relationship consulting firm. Now, April says the women she works with are more judgmental and inflexible than the men. You see what Allen’s saying, right? April Beye do, actually. I think there’s a lot of women that are exhibiting behavior that is contradictory to wanting to get married. There’s a way to figure this out early on. You don’t have to get to the aisle, you don’t have to get to engagement. You can pretty much figure this out in about three to four, five weeks if you’re really looking, being honest with yourself, and engaging with this person at that deeper level. Yes, you are that type of woman that men seek out. But men do need to feel like they can be successful with you. So, if you’re not allowing them to be successful with you, and you’re challenging everything that they say to you on a date, you’re not going to get to The One. I think you can’t take a woman and paint her into something that she’s not. Dr. Phi hen you sit down with a client, you what to know what kind of things? April Beye want to know where he comes from. I want to know his upbringing. I want to know his lifestyle. I want to know his wants and I want to know his needs. And then it’s my job to find what is compatible with that. I’m from the inside out, not the outside in. Dr. Phi ell, listen. I want to thank all of my guests today, including dating coach April Beyer. I’m going to put a link to her on the Web site so you can find it. April Beyer-Dating Coach & Personal LA/SF Matchmaker