Find yourself a body. Find somebody to love. How do you ask somebody on a date? Well that song doesn't get it done, but we'll chat about that. This is Dr. Paul, author of "Boomer Girls - A Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating" and host of Ask Dr. Paul. Look, if you want to ask someone for a date, I want you to listen to two words, do it. The worst that can happen is the person says no. And guess what? For every no you get, you're that much closer to a yes. It's the law of averages. Find somebody, as the song goes, somebody to love, and that's what you're looking for. We're all looking for one thing in life, to love and be loved. That's how it is. So don't hesitate. That very person that you hesitate asking may be the very person that will make your life complete. That may be the angel or it could be the saint, but hopefully the angle, be it male or female that you really need. There must be a reason for that attraction. There has to be some chemistry. There has to be some magnetism. There may be a spiritual connection, you may have a soul mate, but you have to do it. Just go up to a person and say, "you know, I think I'd like to have a cup of coffee with you". Don't say a drink. Keep alcohol out of it. You can have that later. People are less defensive when you say, "let's have a coke, let's have coffee and maybe we can chat about something that could be of mutual interest". Don't hesitate. You'll be surprised. A cup of coffee is pretty, pretty safe and they have no problem with that. I wouldn't suggest, "let's go to my place and have a cup of coffee". Go to a public place and have a cup of coffee, but ask. You know, those who ask, get. That's the way it works. This is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow.