I don't know where I've been, I don't know where I am and I don't know where I'm going. So ask yourself, where are the best places to meet people? This is Dr. Paul, author of Boomer Girls A Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating, and I can let you know a little secret. The secret is this. What do you like to do? Do you like to go to art museums? Do you like to go to maybe political functions? Do you like to go to seminars? Do you like to go to clubs all the time, maybe once in a while? That's where you want to meet people. Whether you're a man or a woman, the key is go to the places that happens to have the items that you want because if you go to a country western bar or a country western event and you're really not into that, probably not a type of person you're going to want to meet. Or just the opposite. If you are into country western, you may not want to go to a jazz club. So you go to the places that are of interest to you and then you're going to meet someone who is probably compatible with what you want. So it's a simple thing. Ask yourself where have I been, where am I now, and where am I going. If you like where you've been, then you wouldn't be where you are. Remember, if we keep doing what we've done, we can only expect the same results. So where you're going and where you want to go, short term, mid term and long term objectives. Go to the events that please you and you will meet someone who will also please you. This is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow.