Hi, my name is Antone Christopher and I am the author of The Bitter Man's Guide to Dating and The Bitter Woman's Guide to Dating and I'm here today on behalf of Expert Village. In this segment I'd like to talk about turn ons for guys. And we all have a different idea of what turns us on. In this case I'm going to give you some ideas that men have told me through my interviews while writing my books. First of all semi independence. If a girl is independent and she has her own car, her own job and she takes care of herself on her own, this is very, very much a turn on for much guys. It shows that she cares for herself and her life. If she has a great sense of humor and she's making you laugh and she's making life easy for you and she's just a smiler and a laughter. This is a big turn on for most people in general. If she's flirtatious. She's talking with you, she's smiling with you and she's twirling her hair, whatever she's doing this is showing that's she's flirtatious and she's interested in you and that just makes you feel good. Be yourself. I always tell girls to be yourself, but be your positive self and be happy when you're around somebody. This is a big turn on for guys, they love girls that are just being themselves. Have a relaxed attitude. If you're just basically relaxed and you're kicking back at a party and you're having a drink and you're talking and you're smiling, you can be very approachable and guys will definitely, definitely want to talk with you and this is a turn on to them as well. Femininity is a big one. A lot of girls like to dress like men these days. I would say dress like a women, put some skirts and some heels on, whatever you have to do make yourself look pretty, do your nails. Guys always check that out, it's just common, it's human nature. Happy smiler's. People who just smile and laugh all the time are attractive to everyone. It makes them feel good, it makes the people want to approach you. Have your act together basically. This is a turn on for everyone. You know when you show you're independent and like I said you have a good job and you're taking care of your life and you have ambition and motivation, a big turn on for most people. And interest and talents. If you have an interest and you're an artist or you're a musician or love your computer, or whatever it is that you love to do there are so many million things to love. When a guy sees that you have a passion for something, he's going to really respect you. So check out some of more of my tips on love and compatibility on Expert Village, thank you.