Hi, I'm Donna Barnes. I'm a life and relationship coach and owner of NYDatingCoach in New York City. In this clip we'll talk about how to get him to notice you. So, the first thing you have to do is figure out whether you're the male energy or the female energy. And that has nothing to do with gender. The male energy is going to be the dominant person in the relationship. They are going to initiate the moves, they are going to make the decisions. They are going to want to take control. The feminine energy, which is more compatible with masculine men if that's what you're attracted to, let's the man take the lead. So it all starts with the beginning of attraction. If you see a man that you think is attractive, you need to engage his attention without going over and talking to him. If you're the masculine energy, you walk right up and talk to him, but if you're the girl, catch his eyes. Make eye contact with him and let him be the first one to look away. If you look away first, he might think, oh, did she change her mind? Is she not interested in me? Guys are insecure too. So meet eye contact with him.Smile your best smile, and invite him to come talk to you. He will. This is Donna Barnes, life and dating coach in New York City.