Mirror, mirror on the wall who is the fairest of them all? How to make your girlfriend feel good about herself. This is Dr. Paul author of "Boomer Girls a Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating" and the host of "Ask Dr. Paul". That can be a very very tricky area and here is where I want to go with you on that one. I have had many women call me and tell me how a man has made them feel good about themselves. I have also had them call saying how they have made them feel not good about themselves but let's go to the positive. We all know the ad on TV do you think this dress makes me look fat and he answer is that color really looks good on you. Alright? Always answer in the indirect approach but to make her feel good about herself you may say you know there are a lot of women who think they know how to dress but darling you really know and I really appreciate that. Now she heard appreciate, understand that? She heard appreciate. For her to feel good about herself she needs to know that you appreciate her. Don't take her for granted, that would not make her feel good about herself. I really like the way you drive. I mean it's amazing that so many guys get upset with their girlfriends or wives or fiancee or whoever it may but I feel comfortable driving with you, does that make her feel good about herself? Of course it does and why is that? Because the classic sitcom, well she's a woman driver, you didn't say that. You made her feel good about herself. This is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow.