have you ever watched a snake charmer i think we've all seen them but the more important thing is dear charm a man this is doctor paul author of boomer girls a boomer woman's guide to men and dating charming a man is actually quite simple how often say boo yourself and that's certainly a part of it but ask yourself another question why is a man interested in me pollak key to that is this a man is interested in a woman because of the way she makes feel about himself you want to try a man do not use apologies don't use polls criticisms don't use compliments the yourself and say something bring that roe i like your cat maybe nobody saw it on that before while she'll explain your cut now the key to that is him saying thank you or i didn't note that you noticed buddy does know that you noticed and that's the key because you are different from others it's not that in situ make a mistake but it's also very difficult to do it so make it right and tell them and something that he's never heard before that's how to try my man that smile is nice uh... dimple is nice to guess what ails it's how he responds after you say something significant so it'll be like everybody else this is doctor paul mayor fantasies of today b your realities of tomorrow