We all want to think about everything we possibly can do, except we do it in thirty seconds. Give yourself the thirty second test. I'm going to talk about that in a moment, this is Dr. Paul, author of "Boomer Girl Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating." What is a thirty second test? How can you be outgoing? By not thinking about yourself. Do you know that people on the outside looking at you consider how you look, and what you say, and how you act for thirty seconds? That's right, thirty seconds, and then they start to think about their most favorite subject, and that is themselves. Okay. So if you want to be a Jay Leno or a Letterman or whatever, you have to think outside yourself and be outgoing. What's funny about this? What's interesting about that? As long as you're narcissistic and you're thinking about yourself and you're only satisfied with that, you can't possibly be outgoing. To be outgoing, you need to be on top of something other than you. You have to be outside that thirty second time frame and everybody does it, it's a matter of human nature. And why do we like people who are outgoing? Because we know they're not constantly thinking about themselves, it's a piece of cake. This is Dr. Paul, may your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow.