hi there terry Lee wheres your founder a player me coaching services and I want is a couple minutes and talk about dating a divorced man that he had worse man can be just as simple if teeing a gentleman that have not been to four straight always have your baggage all that happens for the past it just is how you deal with those things in the past but you might be kinda and so that really will come into play most likely if you're dating a divorce me at so there's two things that you want to look at you won't get where he is in the process so there's the physical process going through a divorce and 30 kids there could be people work there could be alimony there could be and things that are still needing to tend to me not fully through the process right so there's where he is with the physical element up the force themselves it's not all complete the paperwork to complete the Alamo you know whatever is outstanding that could still affect your relationship with them it could affect where his mind goes it could affect where his attention it's see just one economist at we're is he in the physical process it okay and if you're willing to be okay with where he is and that physical stage nothing will look to you is where is he with it emotionally okay has he gone through all the stages have you gone through the grieving stage is the over is he now ready to open his heart with the hurt so badly that he feels like he's never gonna be able to trust again okay mighty cheated on and he thinks now women are getting she you know as we go through things in our life we make decisions about ourselves and other people unconsciously and they can really affect relationships going on in the future so I don't want to say that you know did in the first man isn't gonna work out where it could work out or maybe workout I just WAY behind us that we all have been heard in the past and were sometimes can be like no you know another her that you have even if you weren't going through a divorce okay she just me huh mister where he is emotionally anyway really clear about what you are looking for what are you looking for in a partner and house after need to show up okay if somebody's shop and have all their ducks in a row and somebody doesn't have their tax or other gonna be a good match for you case you were being really honest with what you're willing to to work with so many are you willing to communicate about and if you can communicate about these things it could be you really really worthwhile so this could actually be opportunity to have open dialogue haven't open conversation with your match have an open conversation with your man and will look to see you know why is stopping him or what is that that's that you think you have concerns about ask questions and then stop elephant okay don't if you don't read into the questions for him if you do that you're going to get your own answer right stocky asking questions documents and really listen to what you want to communicate a lot a memo come to the table and they will tell us what they can get they will tell us who they are and most the time us from it aren't listening or not listening to what they really can't give we're listening from the fantasy or when listing from what we think they will eventually get be given to us City situation in the country so I have left an information where this came from you can go ahead and click my aunt my subscribe button on the YouTube channel and it received update by so we copy creating you videos for you freewheeling for you to my training video included down below it www-data attracting your man that can I hope this is helpful and I look forward to seeing you again