Hi I'm Art Malov from New York dating coach in New York City and I'm the author of park bench dating. In this clip I'm going to show you how to prepare for a first date. It's actually quite simple. One of the first things that a guy do wrong is freak out about the first date. They start over thinking, they start getting anxious about what to do, how to do things and so one of the most important things you can do is actually just relax and concentrate on having fun. So all you need to do is just think, you know what I'm going to go and I'm going to have fun. That's all. Seriously there is no secret techniques here, just concentrate on you having fun. Often guys care a little too much about how, make sure that the girl feel comfortable or she feels that she's having fun. You know what, if you are having fun and you are enjoying your time, she will enjoy time with you and she will have fun also. So by concentrating on yourself, which we often don't do, and thinking you know what, I got to enjoy ,that way you are going to have an excellent, excellent first date. That's all the preparation you need. This is Art Malov and this was how to prepare for a first date.