How to meet women online. i want to give you a really cool principle that is really important about online dating and it's it to dress is basically a big problem of guys have when it comes to online dating id which is that they can't stop online okay getting stuck on line and they stop writing a message that uh... puts it on a dating site dividing a message and she responds back cool so then they carry on writing and she writing and he's writing and she's writing it so it goes for a week and and do you think what the hell i mean do i want to do this all my life and then you try to movers and then he tried to say you know what do you know can we meet on the date or something and then she's talking ten-hour chilton and there is a great way of doing this and it's really important one what you want to do is you want to go baby steps and you want to get steps in the level you wanna increase the level of intimacy that's what i want to say he will increase the level of intimacy nala dozens of as you want to i mean i mean you have to for medium right you have different stages of intimacy in terms of how you communicate writing the email is the least into that night or like writing a message is that the sentiment that have a lot from that where you can interact that uh... be more interactive friend and feel each other a little bit more is instant messaging right then the next level of is probably uh... voice call long on skype so you can hear each other great that have a lot this probably either for a number of being on the phone just because people sometimes a bit worried about getting a fair number of which is understandable or speaking on skype video scud videos great i mean it's brilliant thoughtful for dating when you uh... meet people online and then you wanna check out what they're actually like skype video ucm conference call on skype print ok and then the next level obvious you'll be on the actual date night so what you want to do is to uninmuh old the insurrection correctly as boris creepy as you can as pretty as his natural uh... to the next level up of intimacy if u can skip the internet messenger but he goes straight to to phone great some people of different preferences some women nutty as a friend about surprisingly other people who love to be on skype but never want to get there for a number of people of different preferences different stories and i would just go with the flow that bought what you want to do is the principle is increase the level of intimacy in terms of the interaction okay so that you get to media that where you have more of a chance to read interact with having the impact uh... may come off and hear what she's like to actually get an idea of what she's like okay so that you can't tell whether you have chemistry at all because the worst thing you want to do is like you've just been writing if you messages and you end up on the daytime you know you hardly recognize uh... she doesn't sound like anything that you recognize because you've never heard a voice them everything has come to the new and different i mean sometimes i can look up pretty well the terms of the goals of people who might happen am and it's a lot harder to make it work because you have to be really great apnea building report the connection at all that stuff so levels of intimacy movers along okay here's a key thing his old trick as she is a key thing as a traitor kind of makes this process easier and smooth it because a lot of christ struggle with this moving it for one level of intimacy to the next because it always seems like a completely different thing again like you like to talk in your writing death knows argument to speed on the phone and you know her voice is different and you could notice because you don't know what it's like speaking to help blah blah blah so how do you do it so usually what boat people and sometimes do is they wait too long so she left the manasa a shift the number and like two days later the call and as for starting and from the beginning to start or prior i'm peter you know i'm the guy from you know u_n_ anta that do you remember me or you know i'm the guy with a funny have torpedoed and then she's like in the middle of something coz or or all you have the right that there's the the ice is a good time you know set the candidate or contract so here's a key little trick that are using all the time wiki blvd works and makes the whole process very seamless and easy and that's really important for many reasons because it makes it easier for as well to just go with the flow like you know i just feel that everything is going smoothly which is the weight should be read here is the key thing that two things without that you want to do the seconds you see that she's giving you a phone number write hall has skype or whatever react to it and responds with on this new media ok so she's just left you a message saying hey yes this is my number uh... call me sometime you go you put in your phone right now when you can see it pen you caught up like as if you're swinging his guide which i hope you are because you know that's what this comes across fast hands and you leave a message ok passport you speech on the five and you can leave a message not just leave a short message and it could be as simple as hey this is stefan uh... uh... yeah this is my number so call me back when you have a moment like speeches that bike yahoo whatever now if you want to get in really good at this if you want to make this really cool than i would recommend much needed to trick and here's how it goes when you've just been talking to us you would have had certain topics lives as you might have just told you something about for example uh... i don't know that you know adult just had uh... made babies with a neighbor's dog or something i don't know and to um... if you are smart and you want to be smoothing this whole process so that's the kind of takes a by surprise at the same time makes it feel like 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stop speaking to us on the dates just pick up something that has just been talking about intent and make it seem as if the conversations as carrying on level of intimacy to level of intimacy makes sense that's how to make the whole process really super small okay said today that have told you how-to could be hands efficacy moved from one level of intimacy to the next so that you quickly get to the next level as could be as you possibly can posb account so that you don't get stuck on one level and then you become the internet friend okay and they're not giving you basically ah... and to keep things about how to transition and that is on the one hand critically transition services she gives you the information that you need to transition to the next level like but for now but you give a quick although you takes it could be okay and then when you text all u give a call just basically make it sound like you carry on the conversation from before that you've had to pick up something that that the fun funny so that it's is very casual but you don't go of how much stefan we've just been speaking on you know whatever there's been so forth certain don't break it all the time just carries on smoothly ok does not want to i have up my sleeve in terms of how to do that because i've been doing it now for a while and uh... many things are actually copies the people with underestimate how easy it can't be too couples of days between uh... and uh... i'm gonna give user the shortcuts basically uh... here on the newsletter sign up their and you get more than a lot more of course because of the programs and stuff like that so check it out it's all there for you it's just you know on tuesday respond basically but i want to help you okay so if you'd like this let me know like the video showed the difference order and use the stuff okay because really works see you later