Hi, I'm Art Malov from your Dating Coach in New York City, and I'm the author of "Park Bench Dating". In this clip we're going to talk about how to flirt when you're a shy guy. And what is shyness? It's, you know, sort of not sure what to say, and it's perfectly fine to feel it. You know, majority of us are shy, or not sure about social situations. And so, I actually suggest to say something cute. So, for example, why not if you're in a social setting, let's say in the bar or lounge, and you see somebody you like, you can open with something funny or cute, like, hey, hey, how are you? Do you know how much polar bear weight? No. Enough to break the ice. I am Art. Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you. So this is an example of, just you know, sort of playful and cute, it's not really pick up line, it's just like funny and, you know, so just say, you can like open with this, or you can just kind of like, you know like, wave, you can do like a shy wave. And that's how you start a conversation. This is Art Malov, and it has been how to flirt when you're a shy guy.