We're going to push the boundaries a little bit. I've got some hard-core girls coming in a little bit later that are going to tell you guys how it is. The thing with women, like I said, I'm bringing a few women in here that are gonna kind of lay down the law a little bit. They're gonna to tell you how it is and you know what some of the myths that are out there like guys need to be nice and things like this. It doesn't work that way. You know, like I said I'm going to bring these women in here that are going to tell you as soon as a guy goes into that frame you fucked yourself. You put yourself either in the friend category or kind of like the poor guy you know maybe I'll just keep him around just because he needs a friend. Or I'm just going to blow him off and shoot him back. Women are ruthless. Because women talk so much dirty shit that the first time I was in a with 5 of them doing the hot oil wrestling, I was blown away. Literally I just got real quiet because I could not believe the way they were talking you know. They were talking about dick sucking, and getting fucked, and farting, and was just all... Whoa! That blew my paradigm of what I thought. Like I gotta be nice and things like that. We all probably at one point or another bought into that whole paradigm. But it's not true. They want a man that's on the edge a little bit. Who's going to get face, not physically, but get in their face, you know, sexually. You don't and have a little bit of spontaneity, have a little bit of charm, have a little bit of quickness. You know but really any time you lay down a challenge or you back off of a challenge you're really telling that women that you're not up for the challenge of being with her. You've got to always remember the male destructor always needs to meet the female destuctess head on. And the trail starter for me being you know 15 years old, fat, bald, no bald but had a bowl hair cut, missing teeth, white, freckle-faced. You know, I say it every seminar, I was the guy that women played spin the bottle at the party with and I was just kind of there. If the bottle landed on them, they'd say go kiss Eric. You know, I could see the non-verbal 'Fuck, I gotta kiss that guy?' Okay. That's where I began. I remember I was sitting there and I was pretty shitty with women back then. Uh... I didn't know what to say. But I thought I did. You know, you have the cocky confidence where you're kind of like 'Yeah, watch this guys.' And I remember I said to my table, you know a bunch of friends, we were kind of nerds and things like that, that's just the way I kind of grew up, I said 'Watch this.' And there was this chick that I totally dug. And this was in... I think is was in like June. And Santa Barbara's very interesting, and I turned around and I said 'Watch me pick this chick up.' And I turned around and before I could say anything she said 'Hey, what's up.' And I went... 'Hey... Um... what are you doin'...' And I kind of went blank. I said '...holloween?' She goes 'What?!' And I said, and everyeone started laughing at my table, I just turned back around and I was just 'Are you fucking kidding me?!' You know, I got it down to where it's really easy for me to seduce right now. Um... Usually I go down to the 5 minutes or less. Blah, blah, blah. Easy. Now I'm starting to stretch myself a little bit and going to the non-verbal seduction. You know. Can I seduce without saying a word? So what I suggest you guys do, and this is one of the first things is get one of those little folders that you open up in. Start writing down all of your beliefs. When I started I think I came up with about a hundred beliefs that at the time I wanted to change. I wasn't good enough you know, I get intimidated around women. Things to this nature. And then what you do is with some of the learning things that we'll do, whether it's the belief changes or writing it down, you're just going to go through one at a time. If you do one of the day... Or one a week... If you have 150 in 3 years if you learn to change every single one of them by just taking a little conscious effort and focusing on that you're going to absolutely change your life in 3 years. Okay. Most time it will take 6 months. Most guys are like 'Oh, so what do you like to do? Oh yeah, me too. I kind of go down there. Do you want a drink?' And hopefully, you know, she has the right drink combination where she gets horny and you just happen to get lucky. It's a chance thing. But when you can really just stop... and just go 'You know what? You enjoy pleasure. Don't you?' And look at 'em... And say 'That's right, you do. It's fun to enjoy pleasure. Isn't it?' And start going into those sexual realms. You can turn stuff around so fuckin' fast it's ridiculous. You know, in the last year there's probably been 50 or so more that were under 3 minutes. Just bam! Because women, which is good because you guys are here, are not used to hearing guys talk like that. And if you're going to be a dominant man that's really going to go after the women that are on the upper echelons of looks in this society, you're going to have to learn to lead. It's all about leading. 'Come here. Let me show you this.' Okay. Women don't respond to guys that are like 'Um... I have an opinion. Can you answer this question for me? Who lies more men or women?" And I'll have girls tell you that that's just weak. Pathetic. I say it a lot of times, you know, there's only 3 things. You guys are salesmen first. Every single one of you here is selling yourself. Whether you like it, or believe it, or not. At any one point in time you are selling yourself. Okay. So get over the fact that you're just a pickup artist or you're just some guy who can't get laid or whatever. You think to yourself that you're a salesman. You're a super salesman. You're a super sexual salesman. Okay. There's 3 things you really sell. You sell either a product, or a service, or an idea. That's be something you'd want to write down because it's pretty important. And we're going to go into it a little bit. But it comes down to your service. If you can't service a woman, how much real... sexual confidence are you going to have? Okay, if you don't know what to do, learn to start practicing. Learn to start in one little area and work on it. There's a lot of things out there that are great for sexual stamina. But when you start self-organizing your mind, your thoughts, where you're about, where you're from, all around taking her so far from beyond what she's used to that it breaks the barriers of the mundane. that you're going to lead her to this whole area that she's never explored before. That you're going to make her, you know, shake like a dog shitting peach tree seeds is what Steve likes to say. You know, tear gasms when they're shaking so much 45 minutes they're laying in bed and they're having these organs, over organs, over orgasms. When you know that you can do that to a woman and you've done it before to bring a little bit more power in your pocket. that's really what we want to get to. And we're going to go though a lot of that stuff. And all fo the sudden they're like... to their friends. And I call it The Woman Referral System. That's where I'm at right now, where women refer. I'm that guy now. Thank god I've worked my way to it. And this is what I wanted. Where women are going 'Go see my friend. He'll take care of you. He'll take care of you.' And it's a woman referral process. Because they talk. They're like 'You gotta listen to how this guy talks to you. You know, he don't give a fuck.' He'll talk to you, he'll look you right in the eye and go 'You like that don't you? I can see it right in your eye.' It's about being aware. Absolutely aware. First thing I want to do, is anyone here afraid of strippers? Is anyone gonna mind? You're afraid of strippers? (I get anxiety a little bit.) You get anxiety? Okay, so tell the male strippers not to come in here tonight. We're going to keep the female ones. Alright? Oh, Danica. Can we borrow you for a second? (Um, sure.) Come up. See, not ever shy. You see that? She don't give a fuck. Just comes stomping up her. What's going on girl?