Hi, I'm Art Malov from your dating coach in New York City, and I'm the author of "Park Bench Dating". In this clip we're going to talk about how to be a good flirt, and Jess here will give me a hand. And the flirting is actually quite simple. What most guys are afraid of is say something and look stupid, and that's why they don't do enough flirting. So when you flirt, it's OK to, you know, to be playful. It's really, it's just a, you know, joking around and going back and forth, and you know, you can say anything of, Oh, those shoes are, are great. It's Pirates of the Caribbean. And you see, it's nice and playful, and everybody love pirates, so you can't go wrong with that. It doesn't even have to make sense, it's just playful, fun, and she will respond, with a smile, with a smile, or say something. It really, but the thing is, don't take it too seriously, once again, just have fun, enjoy. This has been our Art Malov, and it has been how to be a good flirt.