Hi, I'm Donna Barnes. I'm a life and relationship coach. And owner of NY Dating Coach in New York City. In this clip we'll talk about how to know if you're in love. Well a lot of people mistake lust for love. So the first thing you should look at is are you just wildly attracted to this person or do you genuinely care about their feelings and what happens to them, and who they are as a human being. If you do then that's true love. But most people if, if it's being reciprocated. It's only true love if you're getting back from the other person. If they're saying that they respect your feelings and really want to be with you. You can tell you're in love when you're around that person and you just get that, that feeling that you feel better than anywhere else on the face of the Earth. That you just love being with that person. But if they're not returning that, then that could be a sign of obsession with the person. So there's definitely warning signs to look out for if you're not getting the same thing in return. It's wonderful to love somebody but not if they don't return those feelings. So if you feel like you're not getting it in return then you will find love with someone else. This is Donna Barnes, life and dating coach in New York City.