Hi, my name is Reka Morvay. I'm a psychologist, and I'm going to talk to you today, about how to stop a breakup. Now, if your relationship has progressed to the level of problems, where you foresee that perhaps walking away from the situation, may be an attractive choice, for either of you, then it is likely that the thought of breaking up, has probably entered your mind, or your partner's mind, and in this situation, you need to take stock of the relationship, and really sit down, and consider, whether this is a relationship that you want to keep, and you want to keep working on, because if you come to the decision that you want to stop this breakup, that you don't' want to give it a chance, then first of all, you need to figure out within yourself, what exactly it is about the relationship that is problematic. What are those need of yours or your partners, that are not being fulfilled? Is your life not the way that you would imagine it, with a partner, that would make you happy? And once you figure it out, perhaps with the help of a counselor, what those needs are, that are currently not being met. It is time to sit down with your partner, and to really think, and really discuss what their needs are, and what you can do to help meet their needs. It is time to take time out, for the relationship, and to really focus on recovering, and to fixing those problems, that brought you to this situation, where you might be considering breaking up.