We're in the relationship dating world but with a little different twist. Today were going to be talking about how to date your husband. I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources. Just how would one go about dating your husband? Well this is an interesting question because couples often lose site of the romanticism that they once had when they first met together. And that's real important. It's real important to focus on that, focus on the fundamental love that you had that brought, actually brought you together and which started everything going and growing. It's very important to spend some quality time together, some separate time together and couples really need to carve that out so that they have this special and unique time to one another. You can go to candlelight dinners at a restaurant, you can cook a candlelight dinner at home or just carve out a particular time to where this is what you and I, your husband and you are going to be doing that's going to be special and unique for themselves. Think about dressing for success. Have you been to a Victoria's Secrets store? Are you doing things like, you know wearing things that entice him, that show him that he's special, that you're still special, that you still love one another. It's really important. Surprise him. Play some games. Matter of fact, makes some bets. It's a real fun situation where the bet is some type of physical reward. You're going to get a lot more attention from him than if it's something else. So realistically you want to create attention, you want to get out of the routine, but you need to make sure that the fundamental issues in the relationship are all solid, because if somethings out of whack, like for example you're spending three or four nights a week out with your girlfriends, coming at the front door and see him in saran wrap, isn't going to help that situation. So there's a lot of current material. If you Google ten best dates or married dates, there's a lot of information out there from the experts that'll help you out. So dating your husband is a great way to move the relationship forward and rebuild that love and rekindle that fire that's so key. I'm Joe Cuenco from Family Resources, Relationships for Life.