The mirror is the thing. How to flirt with a woman. This is Dr. Paul, author of "Boomer Girl Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating", and host of Ask Dr. Paul. You ever ask yourself how an actor effectively plays a part? He gets in front of a mirror. I have done a myriad of commercials on television, or radio, and I can tell you that the most effective way that you are going to have the results you want is to practice in front of a mirror. Now, women are more subtle than men. So what you do is you get in front of that mirror you shave in every morning, and you talk to yourself. Look at you when you make a comment, or you're planning to make a comment to a woman. What are you going to say? I'm going to give you some basics. First of all, you know, here's a beautiful woman who walks in. She has great legs, she looks super, she is dressed sharp, and what do you say? "Oh baby, you're hot!" Wrong. Because every clown in town has told her that. She doesn't need to hear that. She's heard that before. Say something that's different, and before you say it, look in a mirror and say it to yourself, because that expression you have on your face, that body language that you have is critically important. And you look right in her eyes, and you say something like, for example - I'm going to give you some of my tips, all right? They work. "I noticed your earrings. I'll bet you took some time finding those, didn't you?" "Wow! You mean you're not going to walk up to me and tell me, 'Oh baby, you're hot!' Boy, you might be interesting." That's how you flirt with a woman. This is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow.