A trust is a legal instrument that can not be broken. How do you build trust in a relationship. This is Dr. Paul author of Boomer Girls A Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating. And host of ask Dr. Paul. This is a very, very critical part of any relationship is trust. And you want to have trust just like that legal instrument. You want it to be to the point where it can not be broken. Now let me go back a little bit. You've met your significant other, your girlfriend, your fiance, your wife at January first two thousand seven. Anything that went on prior to that time, is her business and your business. That was then, this is now. That's step one in developing trust. If you want full disclosure then you tell her, If she wants full disclosure she tells you. If that's the case, then it stops there. No recriminations after that. That builds trust in each other. Ok. If you do give full disclosure don't hold back, because the last thing you want to do is say I've given you full disclosure and suddenly this skeleton jumps out of the closet and you are done. That trust is over it will never come back. Building trust also has to do with fidelity. If you go out and cheat, you will never have trust in that relationship again. I don't care what other counselors say. And I have issues with them at all times, oh they can overcome that. No they can't. So trust is the foundation and that's how you make it happen. This is Dr. Paul may your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow.