Being sober is a really good suggestion on how to enjoy a first kiss. This is Dr. Paul, author of Boomer Girls, a Boomer Women's Guide to Men and Dating, and host of Ask Dr. Paul. There is a technique for a first kiss and it's all about timing, alright, now remember that, timing. Well you don't have to look at your watch, you have to feel the moment. There's a first kiss involved. I don't care if it's the first date, the first five minutes of the date, the last five minutes of the date, the middle of the date, whatever. If you have that sixth sense, that inner feeling this is the time, and he or she is looking at you and you move in closely, and I'll tell you a little tip, you won't hear this anywhere else, but take it from Dr. Paul, OK; before you kiss that person, you hesitate. Now why do you do that? Because the other anticipates something they want, and when you see the anticipation in the other person's eyes, then you move. You don't just move in, you stop and then you go. It's more romantic, it's more mysterious, and guess what, it's more effective, and that's the bottom line, that's what you want. Well this is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow.