Keep your radar up to date, make certain that that gut feeling is on. How do you recognize red flags in dating relationships? This is Dr. Paul, author of "Boomer Girls", and host of Ask Dr. Paul. As we go through dating someone, we kind of become somewhat callused, to what we're seeing. We don't see what's there. We're not aware. We kind of go with the flow, and that is what you don't want to do. That is not where you want to go. Keep your radar on, because that gut feeling you have is important. It's telling you something. We have that there for a reason. It's nature giving us an opportunity that is like radar. And, when you listen to what somebody is saying, and they start saying things that edge you, that they are saying for example, some comment about someone else, or they insult a waitress, or they are mean to an animal, or they think some thing's funny which may not be funny at all, may be a cruel act. Those are items that your radar should be picking up. Don't think that it's funny, don't think that it's humorous. If there's a certain vileness in there, you be sure to recognize it, and act accordingly. This is Dr. Paul, may your fantasies of today, be your realities of tomorrow.