Plan your work and work your plan. Planning a perfect date. This is Dr. Paul author of Boomer Girls, A Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating and host of ask doctor Paul. Planning a perfect date. Now look, it's doable. I know many times we get frustrated, we are doing the same thing over and over so now we are going to plan a perfect date. And that perfect date is going to be starting with a D, different. If you want a perfect date two things have to happen. Number one it has to be different. How can it be different, ok you've gone to a place where they serve steak all the time, go to a Thai restaurant. A perfect date. Maybe they have Thai dancing. Very, very nice dancing by the way it's kind of a ballet with the hands. A perfect date, well what if it doesn't work out. Well then you punt, you go and say hey look that didn't work out too well. Be very honest up front but lets do something else. Let's go out to the beach, watch the water, have something to drink and guess what, the perfect date is on again. The key to perfect dates happens to be having a backup plan. Because sometimes perfection doesn't work out the way we want it too. This is Dr. Paul may your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow.