Hi, my name is Jessica Claire. And I'm a dating coach for New York Dating Coach. And we're here in New York city. In this clip, we're going to talk about how to buy a woman a drink. Now people always tell me that the first thing they do. When they meet or see a girl in the bar. They say, hi! I'm Joe. Can I buy you a drink? And there are couple reasons why this does not work. A, you're giving her every opportunity to take your money from you. Which you should value, just as much as your time. B, a woman is allowed to say, yes. And it's not an indicator that she's going to stick around and talk to you. So why would you waste your eight dollars. Buy her a drink. She says thank you and then walks away. So rule number one, about buying a woman a drink. Don't, unless you happen to have already been talking to her for a while. She seems interested in you. And you're buying yourself a drink already. Now it's more than o.k, to say, bartender. I'm having another drink. Would you like one? And offer her a drink. Then it's o.k to pay for one. But it's never o.k to use, buying a woman a drink. As a first pickup. It won't work. You'll be disappointed. And in the end, you might not even get her sit and talk with you. This is Jessica Claire with New York Dating Coach. And this has been, how to buy a woman a drink.