Hi. My name is Jessica Claire and I'm a dating coach for New York Dating Coach, and we're here in New York City. In this clip, we're going to talk about how to flatter a girl. Now, if you're meeting a girl for a date, you're allowed to compliment her once; once is enough. A girl will always remember every compliment you've given her. If you compliment her over and over throughout a date, you're just making her feel uncomfortable. Now, let's talk about how to flatter her, how to compliment her. A sincere compliment is always better than a generic one. For exampl your eyes are beautiful" isn't nearly as sincere a 41"oh my goodness, what color are your eyes?" They're stunning. Now, a girl will know if you're using a generic compliment, so just avoid them. "I like your shirt" or "I like your skirt," isn't the same as, "wow, tonight, in that skirt, you are the sexiest woman in the room." There's a sincerity and a quality to the tone of voice when it comes to flattering women that men sometimes don't understand. Think about your tone of voice. Think about whether or not your compliment is sincere and if you mean it, and make sure to use it in the beginning, sometime toward the beginning of a date, and to not say it again. This is Jessica Claire with New York City Dating Coach, and this has been how to flatter a girl.