Don't compromise, listen to me carefully don't compromise. How to find your ideal partner, this is Dr. Paul author of Boomer girls, a boomer woman's guide to men and dating. Finding your ideal partner is not a matter of political discussion. What do you want. Be picky, be selective, you are going to be with this person. Don't make compromises. Don't look at that person through beer goggles if you happen to be in a club. Ok, don't sell yourself short. You are important, you are important to you and you are going to be important to the person who is your ideal. The key to finding the ideal person, is to make certain that they are withing the framework of what you want. I'm not saying that you need to sit down and write a list saying I want this and this and this, they have to have brown eyes, and green hair and purple shoes, no. Don't go there. Have the concept in your mind, not the details, the details will work themselves out. I can tell you straight as it would just fascinate you about people who call my show and tell me what they want. And I'm saying to myself do you use grocery lists when you go to the grocery store ,I mean do you think that's what you are doing, is shopping? As an ideal mate you want to think conceptually. It will detail out for you later. Of course the devil is always in the details. The key to it though, is to make certain that it's within the framework of your standards. Be careful for what you'll settle for. You may get it. This is Dr. Paul may your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow.