Innuendos go a long way to reach that goal. What are sex tips for guys? This is Dr. Paul, author of "Boomer Girls, a Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating," and host of "Ask Dr. Paul." Well, sex tips for guys can be highly emotional, they can be devastating, and they can be worse than that, a disaster. Now humor plays a large part in using sexual innuendo. An innuendo has two meanings. And if you approach a woman and you say to her "Baby you're hot," you're dead, you're done, it's over. She's never heard that before. Do you think that you're going to be successful with somebody by saying that? You think she's never heard it before? If she is hot, she's heard it once too often. You're just another one of the rejects pal. It's done for you. So, find something more interesting. Look her right in the eyes, and we've both seen the t-shirts that women wear that say "These are not my eyes," okay. You follow that? You look her right in the eyes and say "There's something very sensuous about you." Oh, something different. Not some bozo walking up saying "Oh baby you're hot." That'll get you nowhere pal. You'll be out drinking with the guys after the club has closed. So, the way to a woman's interest in sex is to be somewhat subtle. By the way guys, have you ever notice women are somewhat subtle? You can do the heavy duty stuff late, that works then. In the initial phase you have to be a little more creative. This is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow.