Hi, I'm Art Malov from Your Dating Coach in New York City, and I'm the author of Part Bench Dating. In this clip, we're going to talk about how to be more attractive to women, and there is no secrets here. You see, the difference is not to try too hard. What guys do is they try too hard. It's too hard. We can put a lot of too's here; meaning they want to impress and you see that because media tells you, "You must impress," "You must impress," and they try so hard to impress, but that's very unattractive. Guys like; women like confidence. You probably have heard that before. So, that 's not a myth or a stereotype. It's a reality, and guess what, trying too hard is not attractive. It's not confident. So, if you want to meet somebody and be attractive, be confident. So, trying too hard is no and confident is yes. And when I say confident; meaning don't be afraid to lead. Don't be afraid to initiate, to approach. That's what you do to be more attractive to women. This is Art Marlov, and it has been how to be more attractive to women.