Hi I'm Art Malov from New York Dating Coach in New York City. And I'm the author of Park Bench Dating. In this segment we are going to talk about how to ask a girl out on a date. The key here is actually quite simple. You don't want to ask way to far in advance. In fact if you are in college or you are to work or some other place where you see the girl regularly. It's the best way to do it is, to really truly ask her out for when you finish something, lets say it's to you know you have some kind of hobby, you like hey listen, hey Jess what are you doing after, after this class. Nothing. Do you want to grab a coffee. Sure. Excellent so we'll meet after class. And it can, you don't even need to actually ask right in the end, you can ask, lets say if there is a break or certain activity going on, a hobby you can just bring it up. You see it's nonchalant it's very relaxed and it doesn't put much pressure on her and it's also surprising. It's a..isn't it? Yeah. It's a positive way rather then trying to like, oh my God, do you, are you available on Friday? So you see it's not very relaxed so if you want to give relaxation and be relaxed yourself. This is Art Malov and it has been how to ask a girl out on a date.