hi i'm donna barnes agni leg and relationship coach and owner of n_y_u_ dating coach in new york city in this clip will be talking about the best comply stand in my opinion there are no pickup lines if it's going to sound like a line it's enough to know the best thing you can do is really be confident about who you are and know yourself no have a repertoire maybe it just things that you know that worked the don't say it like a line and flattery will get you everywhere every girl likes to be complimented so even if she's not interested in you have to say something nice but it's got to be a genuine compliment it can't be some way like i did not realize you know you got to make it come from your heart something that you really be and never a compliment ask eric to give you an opinion about something say hey my buddy and i are talking about this what do you think what's your opinion is a simple way to bring somebody into the conversation and it seems less so forget about trying to have a line home who you are figure out your best points and put your best foot forward no problem attracting don't forget to smile seized on the barnes like gave their lives in new york city