Hi my name is Reka Morvay and I'm a psychologist and I'm going to talk to you today about how to get your man back. If you have found yourself in a situation that your partner has left you, your man has left, then you need to figure out why. This is very important and it is the key piece of information for getting him back because if you don't understand why he left you won't be able to fix whatever it was that made him leave. Now once you have figured out what it was that made him leave you need to fix it, you need to change it and you need to show him that you have changed this. You need to be able to attract your partner back into the relationship by showing them that they can feel good in this relationship again. Probably the reason they left is because for some reason they were not having a good time in that relationship any more so you need to be able to offer or you need to be able to show that you can provide your partner with good feelings and that they can feel good about being in this relationship before you can convince them to come back. Now once you figured out what it was that made them leave and once you have been able to change it you still need to be able to get your man's attention so that they will pay attention to and give you another chance. So now the question is you've made your changes, how do you get your man's attention. Only you know that because you have been in the relationship with this person before so try to do something that you know would get his attention, if that's dressing sexy and showing up at his doorstep then that is one thing. If he's a sports fan then try to get him tickets to his favorite game or try to get him a movie that he likes, try to do something nice to get his attention back on to you and then show him rather than just tell him but show him that whatever the reasons for his leaving have been changed. That you have made some changes in the relationship and you are ready to offer him something new and different this time.