The birds do it, the bees do it. How to flirt with a man. This is Doctor Paul, author of Boomer Girl Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating and host of Ask Doctor Paul. Flirting with a man is actually a two way street. Now think about it. How often have men complimented on what you wear, how you look, your hair? In effect, that's flirting isn't it? Now ask yourself this ladies, and this comes up on my show all the time, and women don't think of it. When is the last time you told a man, you know I really like the way your hair is cut? You'll probably fall on the floor because women in our culture don't say that in the United States. Or you really have a nice shirt on. I like that. He'll be shocked because he doesn't hear that. I like the way your jeans fit. That's how you flirt with a man, ladies. It's a two way street. And I say this invariably - and I have had woman call my show back and say Doctor Paul, you're right. The guy really opened up. I told him you know, I really like that combination shirt and slacks, something simple. And the guy is blown away because he's never heard a woman compliment him before, in effect, that's flirting. And guys do it with you all the time and I would highly recommend that if you want to be successful in that fashion, do it. This is Doctor Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow.