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I'm Eldon from freedatingscene.com. Online Dating takes effort. It's something that doesn't come natural to any of us. You have to make yourself stand out, especially to get a positive response from a quality woman. They have a lot of choices. They get a lot of emails. You want to make sure your primary photo has you in your best light. It needs to be kind of a professional looking photo. It should... You should be dressed as if you were going to go out on a date. You should be smiling. That helps. You got to compete with a lot of people. There's basically two approaches to getting responses from quality women. One is kind of the numbers game. I'm not sure I'd recommend that. But, I think that is what most guys do. They send out an email, a lot of times the same email to a lot of different women. And, if you happen to hit somebody at the right time, maybe they'll respond. I don't really recommend that. You should really be selective with who you invite into your life. So, I think what you should do is find, you know, that woman or maybe a few different women that you think would really fit with you, or might really fit with you. And, you should really take the time to study their profile. Try to envision what a typical day for them might be like, you know, what kinds of issues they might have, what kind of things they might be thinking about. You know, try to see where you can enhance their life a little. You know, maybe you happen to have some skills as a guitar playing, you know, person or maybe you are great at kayaking. Who knows. But, there might be something that you, that you have that, you know, that really might be valuable to that person, that might enhance their life. That's kind of what you want to look for and you really want to put that forward in your email to them because your email is really a one shot deal. You got one chance to interest them enough to have them look at your profile. And, then your profile has to be good enough to interest them into, you know, responding. So, you really kind of got one shot at this. It's a bit of a high hurdle when there is so much competition out there. It almost feels like a catalog of people sometimes. But, you know, you can do it. You can do it. You can find that person that really is a good fit for you, that really... You know, that you believe if you got a chance to get to know them that their lives, their life and your life would be better. You know, you find that person and you come across very sincere and kind of give them an idea of, you know, how you might fit into their life. You know, it's not a big detailed thing. But, hey, you know, let's say you're a kayaking expert and you saw on their profile that they were interested in kayaking and had a couple photos, you know, you might, you might, you know, you don't want to brag. It's not really that kind of thing. But, you might say hey I was over at someone's today or, you know, I was up this one river and it was really exciting, you know. Have you ever been there? Something like that may really grab someone. It's mostly about taking your time, you know, being sincere, being selective, putting your best foot forward, making sure your pictures look good, making sure your writing in your profile looks good, making sure that your attracting the kind of person that you really want to be with. You know, it all takes a little work. But, you may just find somebody special. So, it's well worth it. Anyway, this is Eldon from freedatingscene.com. We'll have more tips later. I kind of wanted to get out there and let everybody know that, kind of what we've learned I guess, through the process of creating a dating site and helping people. You know, you never know who joined today, freedatingscene.com.