Hi, my name is Antone Christopher and I am the author of The Bitter Man's Guide to Dating and The Bitter Woman's Guide to Dating and I'm here on behalf of Expert Village. Today I want to discuss compatibility, is she or he right for you? This is very important in a relationship. If you're dating someone and you're going out with them and you're not sure if you're clicking, you have to start to find out who is right for you and who is not. Is she a drinker? Is she very neat? Is he very sloppy? Whatever it is it could be anything, but you have to find things that are compatible with both of you. A lot of people say opposites attract, well I've tried that and I'm telling you it hasn't worked for me. It might work for you but I like a girl that is more compatible with me. Things that we have in common, are we into sports? Are we into music? Are we into art? Whatever it is we have things in common, when you grow in a relationship and you have things in common it's just going to click and you're going to feel it and it's going to be great. That's what you have to look for. Like I said if you don't have compatibility it's going to be a rocky road and get out.