You happen to like this beautiful girl. Her skin is made of porcelain and her lips looks like cherries. Your senses are aroused at the glance of her. Your heart keeps on pounding so hard as if it wants to get out of your chest. She is the one that you have been fantasizing about. Unfortunately, you and the girl have nothing in common and you are not her type. She prefers sporty muscular men over you. Despite that fact, you just can't help thinking about her. You want to wrap your arms around her and do to her what lovers do in their intimate moment. For some reason you have found the courage to ask her out. Unfortunately, she does not share the same feelings for you. This lady thinks you are a nice guy and not suitable to become her boyfriend. Your heart is crushed. Several questions have risen into your mind. How can I handle this rejection in dating? How can I get a girlfriend? Somehow you knew that it was coming but being denied in dating still hurts like hell. This scenario is not an unusual occurrence in a man's life. This happened to some of the master pick up artists but the real question is how do you cope with the rejection in dating? Do you cry your heart out? Condemn yourself? Yes, you can do any of that but there are better ways to move on after a rejection. You can choose to be more productive and learn from your mistake so that next time you will have a girlfriend and not a stranger. So what should you do in order to deal with a rejection in dating? There are several things that you can do in this situation but here are the acceptable ways to handle a rejection from a gir . Go through the stages of grieving and then move on. Grieving is a natural reaction to such a loss. Embrace it. You have to steer yourself through the stages of grief and bereavement namely; denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. During the denial stage of grieving, you refuse to accept the current reality which is rejection. Eventually the truth will sink in and you will move on to the next stage which is anger. In this stage, you are angry with what happened to you. Who could really blame you? When your emotional resources are exhausted, you will experience depression. In this stage you are tired which leads to the final stage of grieving which is acceptance. In this stage, you have accepted rejection as final. It is important that you familiarize yourself with the stages of grieving in order for you to move on much faster and carry on with your life. 2. Learn from your mistake. It took you some time, effort and resources in courting the girl that you really like so don't put it to waste. Learn from it. Review in your mind what have happened. Explore the possibilities. Read more books about dating that will guide you in finding a girlfriend. Familiarize yourself with the fundamental theories and practices in attracting and seducing women so that you will not commit the same mistake again and pick the women up. 3. Seek to improve yourself. One sign of life is when a person keeps on improving. You are alive! So seek to improve your progress in flirting with women in order to arouse her attraction for you. Self-improvement is not only limited to dating. You can also improve other aspects of your life that is beneficial for you and the people around you. You may want to learn how to speed type or to cook. 4. Treat yourself. Oh well. It happened and there is not much you can do about it. So give yourself some time to rejuvenate and to ease up a bit. You may choose to buy yourself some fantastic clothes in order to upgrade your wardrobe while you are enjoying yourself. 5. Continue talking to girls. It is not the end of the world when you got rejected. You can still talk to other girls. Who knows? You might be able to pick them up. Being good in attracting and seducing women may take some time to develop. It takes some time, investment, patience and commitment in order for it to mature. When you finally get the hang of it, your training will really pay off! 6. Socialize with your friends. Hanging out with friends makes you feel good because you feel the sense of belongingness that you have been searching for all your life. In addition to that, your good friends can increase your perceived value in the eyes of the girls because they are looking for someone who is socially competent. Furthermore, your friends can serve as your wing men. They can help you in neutralizing the cock blockers so that you can focus more on your potential lover. 7. Find your passion. Do you choose to be imprisoned in your home while watching television the whole day? Well, you can still find better things to do than that! You can play your favorite sports like soccer and basketball with your friends. I encourage you to do the things that you are passionate about so that you have something to share with your potential lover and to strengthen your bonds if both of you have the same passion. 8. Look on the bright side of life. Although you are placed in a sticky situation, no one can stop you from looking the bright side of things. Choose to focus more on want you want and not the things that displeases you. Make it a habit to find something to be thankful about because the attitude of gratitude will help you sustain through wear and tear of life. 9. Take it easy. Did you know that a lot of people die of stress? When you are stressed out, you opened yourself to various diseases and disorders. If you take things too seriously, you will exude the air of neediness to the girl. She will be turned off by it. Consequently, she will avoid you like a plague. So help yourself up by taking it easy. 10. Forgive her. When the girl rejected you, it is inevitable that you will feel offended. There are some fellows who will scheme for revenge. Avenging oneself will prevent you from moving on. Therefore it is advisable that you forgive this pretty sinner. So just move on and let her mouth water as you wrap your arms with a tantalizing girl who is more beautiful than her. When you are new to attracting and seducing women, there is an increased chance you might be rejected by a woman. However, what you are going to do about it is what matters most. Are you going to stay in a state of denial and prevent yourself from improving your chance in having a girlfriend? What I am presenting to you is an alternative that can help you to improve your flirting with women so that you can ultimately pick her up. Being rejected is part of learning the art of attracting and seducing women. Did you know that some of the master pick up artists experienced some rejection before they have the will to become the Casanovas that they are? Unlike most men who cower in fear, they have the guts to hold on to their fantasy which is to share a bed with a gorgeous woman. They have strived long and hard until they have mastered the art of picking up women. So what is it going to be? Are you going to be like most men or transcend as an unforgettable lover? The choice is yours!