Have you ever read your dog's body language? What is a proper way to ask somebody out? Well this is Dr. Paul, author of Boomer Girls, A Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating, and host of Ask Dr. Paul. OK, we're going to ask somebody out and I asked you have you ever read the body language of your dog. Ever see that pet come up to you when you come home and it's happy and it walks toward you. You can see by the gait, you can see by the smile, because dog's smile, that's face it, and the dog comes up to you. Now you feel good about that, don't you? Well guess what? When you have that same body language with someone that you want to ask out for a date, they're going to feel good about you and themselves. That's right, we can learn from man's best friend, and it works. Even your cat, you know, may ask you to get back with them later, but typically the cat will come to you too, and they want to say they're happy to see you. Well you have to be that way when you go to ask somebody for a date. You want to let them know that you're happy to see them. Oh, by the way, do you want to go out Friday night? That is not the way to go, alright? You know, I think it really would be exciting, wouldn't it be great, we'll go out Friday night and, and, you know, see what happens. Go to, go to the club or whatever you happen to have in mind. There's a great dinner over at so and so's. And fine, wonderful, but often times it's the way in which you ask it. Do it with enthusiasm, alright, and you'll have success, alright. Remember, enthusiasm is the key. This is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow.