their lives myths surrounding for states and we're here to buy some of those nites for you and in my case I'm here to uphold someone be met really I just to get to the first to see the Emperor of all women you we'll see is the female ambassador you have a right to your right get over and I'm gonna say my opinion okay I don't like as well hacks in the porn industry and you can click that if you like my for cyclical like you thank you I got ago alright what a mess that this says is that guys don't want girls to pay are I'm sorry I don't like girls not guys to pay yeah we do want guys to pay like that's not a myth we definitely want guys to pay a special on the first day and especially if you ask us on the day if you ask me on a date like this happens my friend on time they have fun date the girl is really expensive restaurant and I expect them to pay its like we pay for both the one police paper half screw you buddy you asked me out you pick the restaurant you can pay for the day and let me just freemen let me tell you how this is gonna go were its gon the check will have and then the girls like I jumping to pay for half she doesn't wanna pay for half you suppose if a no I don't know why we do that we just do that but just say no God you take me out to lunch with wants to talk about you and your business and yes with that second see this place is a guy now in jeopardy no I also don't think that that's a myth on especially early on that you should pay what i think is interesting is a list here after a while you can spot the Casa something more reasonable like 80/20 feeble anyway look your guy we have some advantages we have some disadvantages 10 min is having to pay just pay get over it do it yeah I'm so one thing I'm so a Mexican a bust another out what they consider to be a myth bust and talked about this before restaurants in the worst for state settings they say that restaurants here can actually pretty good but I do actually think that it's a very bad billion a lot this one other one did they say on will they actually bust the myth that you have to go to movies either restaurants or movies both very bad venues for first dates I think Calgary Russia but but do you disagree with me no I completely agree with you know and I don't want to steal your thunder so please give okay so as I've said before I'll reaffirmed here you have to get to know the person and I think that movies are you don't get the opportunity to get to talk to them so that's bad right there you don't actually believe the date knowing anything more about the person aside from if they laughed at the joke in the movie or something but restaurants on the opposite side of that we're all you can do is look at the person talk to them and that's I think too much pressure I think that can ruin what could be a perfectly good for state like you may have great chemistry but you know that much shared experience yet and I think that having something else going on aside from water being refilled can help to smooth over any dole moments during the first day that could give you the impression that you wouldn't get along that person when you actually could so do something more actively and let me give you ideas for dates all the time we talk about this yet so let's go to the rest of stuff you could be down to do movie don't do it down to dinner yeah exactly great so what do you think about the myth on that you should say whatever is on your mind the bus that isn't that what do you I think that the Mets you definitely I don't say whatever's on your mind is I like you I break somebody in gradually to your personality and I love you're a bad person or the other kind of live but like this gives an example that wanna I think it the somebody with it was the girl saying that she played the guitar and the guy goes the tire well that's lame everybody play the guitar well yeah I don't get some people I Yes Dear Author pineapple and date you anymore yet that should seem like common sense in which I have a nice I'm from a slightly older generation I guess yeah yet so you should be yourself because but you don't get a relationship with someone and find out that they don't actually like what you like but I it's just natural that there's bad thing is for all of us like parts for personality that people would not like right on the first day there's a reason why I like when you've been with them for six months you can do things that you can do otherwise right example come for that you need to get to don't love you despite your flaws later on that you know those flies at a friends are gonna be like neck yet don't so don't talk about like politics and stuff like that just hide after a little bit the restaurant's I completely disagree because the time where you guys can actually face each other and you can have a conversation like a normal conversation whether it's about like you know you goals in life your family you get a hold of the person or a href I played against our date I feel now you know how you can just know if that guy who is this all wrong dude I'm not a great deal of that you are on a first date you went along to release ebersole I and I am Telling You why it is successfully quit this is what I'm saying I actually think the talk about that stuff is fine even on the first day but the problem is at a restaurant when I stop talking she has to talk or nothing is happening there like if you're doing mini golf or something you can stop talking for a second and something else is happening but like in the rest so it's like being on the phone if neither he is talking why are you on the phone still like I think it just creates too much unnecessary pressure okay Rick shaking his hand let what's going on said he's in a relationship and I'm not so I he knows more about the new republic headed off really well right away I mean I thought it went really well clearly it did because we're still together that's true so I think I'm just get her in the room you a counterpoint tipped to success in saying that not all restaurants are bad and they're like oh my god scary is my we forget it. ID that were allowed to have different opinions I yeah for about I but I would say like if it doesn't go well you're setting yourself up for opportunist because there are like those akward pies's Sony if you wanna sit down restaurant may be used to coffee or something like that because that way it's not as long and it's not as yeah you know I can if it goes well you can go do something yeah that you can be like now