hey it's stephan here good to see u if you haven't got the report yet then go to too shy to date dot com and to download the free report that helps you to switch off your dating nerves in one minute if that sounds good then go ahead and go there and and and do that after the video pam i'm going to keep this extremely short of the question i want to for some some light on war you know move probe out of it is you know "do girls actually want shy guys" that's something that comes up sometimes by frightened you know when people are frustrated and they don't really know you know is this leading anywhere or am i just doomed to be single for the rest of my life because i'm a shy guy and term i guess the assumption is no they don't want shy guys they want to confident guys the cocky guys the leader guys the funny guys tends you know i want to just challenge of a little bit and and maybe question that here is why ok think about this yr how many women are in the uh... there in the world do you think are shy now if they are human beings like you and me and i guess they still are despite being women then ahm there must be about you know like just as many shy girls as there are shy guys to be honest from would be even more shy girls because you know what society doesnt exactly encourage women in general to be more men cocky or confident than guys right here's the thing that's important human beings and women as we said are human beings women especially actually love to be you know love people to get them they love guys to get them on the deep level if you can give somebody the feeling that you get them if you know what's happening with them that you understand them on a deeper level that is gold okay so do you think that in that girls or women that are shy feel that the cocky guys the confident guys that have never experienced being shy necessarily get them cases they don't or certainly the women don't feel like they do and those cocky confident guys very often also just look at a shy guy that uh... shy girl sorry and a they they that talk to them for a while and they kind of just go ahh I am not getting this girl she's just I don't know you know she doesn't seem to find my jokes funny she doesn't react in the way that i'm expecting hoping her for her to react so i'm not sure how to handle this so they sometimes they just trudge often they don't get it do you think as a shy guy you have an advantage definitely you know the amount of forum questions i've come across from women asking how can i you know how can i find some some some some guys who will get me how can i find some guys who who have an experience of what it's like to be me you know that's what i really want now how can open up a shy guy even uh... you get this questions all these questions all the time you know do you think as a shy guy you have an advantage absolutely so you know wat if you are able to overcome your fears your shyness you nerves and manage your shyness in a way that that keeps you operational around girls then i promise you you have a huge advantage over the cocky guys and the confident guys with those girls especially but you know wilson with other girls but you know what just think of the in millions of girls who probably would describe themselves as as shy or who may be that way without describing themselves in that way aane then you know just think of the possibilities ok so the crucial thing is here to take action to overcome your the own shyness in a way that you know what it's like but you are not ruled or governed by it ok so go ahead and take action and get out there and work on your shyness with the shy stops switch and deal with your nerves with your shyness and overcome that and uh... and you're going to be in prime position ok that was my general thought here and feel free to disagree feel free to agree each feel free to leave a comment here below the video and and let me know what you think you know and share the pair maybe a personal story that that the other guys can can look at as well so thanks watching this video hope it was useful if you haven't got the report go to the website tuned up too shy to date dot com and donated their that's written in let us not in numbers of cases take care and i see you very soon thanks for listening thanks for watching and take a right