When you go fishing you have to use bait. Conversely how do you get a date. This is Dr. Paul author of Boomer girls a boomer woman's guide to men and dating. And host of ask Dr. Paul. Bait and date rhyme. And that's something that you need to remember. What kind of bait can you use, well don't just limit it to cosmetics or to clothes, use the bait of your friends. Network, certainly we can use the internet and that has it's own reasons for being and maybe it's not where you want to be. But when you network with friends it's who do you know. Try to go to the clubs and trying to look at people through beer goggles is not going to work if you really are serious about getting a date, somebody worthwhile. Going to events we've all heard it. But ask your friends and say where are you going these day. What's happening for you. What kind of clubs do you belong to, what type of organizations do you belong to. Who do you know, who do you know at work. I'm kind of interested in looking to find somebody to date. Now whether you are a man or a woman it works. Networking works in business and it certainly works in the dating world. And who knows maybe they have an event at their office and they are going to invite you to a party of some sort or maybe they have people there. Well I brought my friend along. You're the friend and they introduce you. The more you network the easier it becomes to get that date. So use the bait. Shirts, appeal, look it's what you say but it's one simple thing. Network and find the people that you want to find through your friends. They are already your friends so they probably have a rapport with people who will be similar to them and friends of yours too. This is Dr. Paul, may your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow.