Everybody wants to be an actor, and everybody wants to win an Oscar. Well, how do you act on a date? This is Dr. Paul, author of "Boomer Girls, a Boomer woman's guide to men and dating", host of Ask Dr. Paul. I believe we all have had a date in which we have said to ourselves, how am I going to act on this date? Well, act number one is, don't act, be yourself. You're not looking for an academy award here. Please understand that being yourself is critical on a date, and I hear so many people, and even witness so many cases, where people are not what they really are. Be real, get real, and be yourself. Because if that date is going to be successful, and it's going to turn into a long term situation, maybe even a relationship, it's critically important for you to come out of the box being honest. Don't come out there, using terms that you typically don't use, or being embarrassing, or think that you're funny, and you're not. That is just hysterically awful. So, make certain, that, when you're on that date, you are not acting. You are being real, and being yourself. That's the best information that I can give you. This is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today, be your realities of tomorrow.