urban legends are often the on written beliefs that have and announced to others what are the un written rules for women about dating this is doctor paul author of boomer girls a boomer woman's guide to men and dating host of ask doctor paul if they're unwritten then how do we know them well their past on and the best thing i can say about unwritten rules is deep panda on another woman as a woman to giving you bell did information guess what ladies there it is equally involved with finding the answers is you are and they're not going to find them from asking you because your also asking them it's additions cycle if you have questions as i often say if you want to find out about a man why ask a woman ask 'em and ask doctor paul if you're at the point where you were asking your girlfriends foreign their opinions and their input that you're doing wrong thing so the un written beliefs that you're going to get that data that you need from your girlfriends is totally absolutely unequivocally wrong there are no more successful than you are the probability is you're more successful they may have their own agenda as well so i would say the for sun written rule is do not depend on your girlfriends to give you delet input for your troy cigs that's what it's all about this is doctor paul may your fantasies of today be your realities tomorrow