to clear out to play that of the question truetype man paid for a date this is doctor paul author of boomer girls a boomer woman's guide to men and dating and host of ask doctor paul well the answer is yes and no let's go over this carefully okay so the typical cultural thing is that the man pays for the date maybe they woman once to feel that she wants to pay for the date on occasion let me let you know this gentlemen allow her to do that because it may be something that she feels comfortable with and wants to do she wants to be giving to you sometimes and i say this in my book and i say this on my show queries don't take all the time let them and pay for the data and if you can't afford to anything on a date invite him to your home make dinner for him that might be a really anant actual thing for him he mere really appreciate that think about it it's a truly st and if you're always taking doesn't settle well with any man especially if that man once it's been the worst all they can see this mines lie is that exploitive taking the alamo nature every month so should a man pay for the date now in this e-mail on when you be the judge of that doctor paul your fantasies of the day the realities of the morrow