Hanibal Lector had a formula for keeping girlfriends, that notwithstanding, how do you keep a girlfriend? This is Dr. Paul, author of "Boomer Girls, a Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating and host of "Ask Dr. Paul". Keeping a girlfriend is not the easiest task around. Why? Well it's kind of like people who get wealthy and spend it all. You only have to get wealthy once. The key and the trick is to maintain that wealth. Well keeping a girlfriend is very much the same. You need to have energy in that relationship. I have had many many women and men call my show and they said keeping this relationship alive is getting more difficult because it is boring, it lacks energy, how do I energize this? Do something different is the pat answer and it really is true, do something different. If you always do what you've always done you'll always have what you've always got. I put that in my book and I tell you over and over if you want to keep that relationship energized and you want to keep that girlfriend, then do it with a mount of verve, do it with energy. This is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow.