sports bars are though way to go or are they how to hang out with your girlfriend how this is doctor paul author of boomer girls a boomer woman's guide to mandating and host of ask doctor paul well maybe that's ports partisan the place where you want to take your girlfriend wise not because you made understand that there may be guys there who also could be interested in your girlfriend that might not be the best place besides it may not be too impressive for her so where you go you might ask her what she likes and if you both like it together that's even better maybe oddly enough she might like to play golf or maybe she likes to fish maybe she'll ice co sailing maybe she wants to go bowling so if you find something that you both enjoy doing then duit that's the best way to hang out with a girlfriend you're not hanging out with the guys you're not going to the sports car and chugging beer that's not the way it works there's a difference i'm sure you noticed that already or you would be asking the question from the bottom line here is enjoy things together that you both enjoy and you can kinda hang out together do you want to go to a bar sometime maybe but doesn't have to be the only thing that you do and make sure that there's a place you both enjoy maybe a place where you can sit and watch the sunset something interesting something worthwhile this is doctor paul new york fantasies of the day the rail it is that while