Have you ever been in like? Well how do you get a girl to like you? This is Dr. Paul author of Boomer girls, a boomer woman's guide to men and dating. And host of ask Dr. Paul. Ok have you ever been in like, well maybe yes maybe no. But the point is how do you get a girl to like you. Pretty basic stuff here. Now I've had a number of women call my show and say I really like him because I could help him. If you are looking for sympathy you are going to find a person like that and you will just hate it. Because you are looking for a codependent, unless you need a codependent. But the number one thing that I can tell you above all else, be aware of your manners. There is nothing that is more impressive to a woman then to have good manners. Basically it's don't be a jerk. If you want a woman to like you, give the indication, maybe you have to pretend but give the indication that you have good manners. That you are a real person, that you are sincere. Ok these are just plain ordinary things that make other people like you. And this is what you are looking for. So if you want this woman to like you when you go out, you should be certain to listen attentively, we call that active listening. She is telling you about herself, you may tell her some things about yourself but don't tell her everything because you want her to question and come towards your self, body wise, in the body language. And she will ask more about you so listen well, listen actively and please use good manners. This is Dr. Paul may your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow.