Instant replay is great, guys, but how do you get your girlfriend back. This is Dr. Paul, author of Boomer Girls, a Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating, and host of Ask Doctor Paul. Well, you did it, and it was your fault. Really, you want to get her back, and you really fouled up. Short of having had involvement with another woman, you're probably going to be able to get her back. Now when you do that, remember this; you need to maintain self respect. Don't be a doormat, have some dignity, and do it right. Start as if you're starting on your first date. I've had many women call my show who have said, "I would not have gone back with him, but he was willing to start from the beginning." So, step one is, take step one, just as if you were going on a first date. "Look, I know things didn't go well. I really apologize for the way in which it went. But I want you to know that I really, really feel strongly about you, and maybe love you, but I want to see if we can start, but let's start from the beginning." Okay? Like, we've done that, but we're not going to do that again. And now we're going to go from point A on. Remember that. It's a replay, but it can be in your best interest. This is Doctor Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow.