hi my name is jessica claire and i'm a dating coach for new york dating coach and we're here in new york city in this clip we're going to talk about how to be more than friends now the first thing you have to know is that you're not the only ones attracted to their best friends statistics today show that they are two percent of married couples we're friends very close friends for over a year before they and updating next you need to know that it won't be over for good if you say something if you're really really back closer friends a sincere and honest way of saying i care about you or i want this to move forward can't hurt things especially if you're honest about not wanting to lose the friendship now a couple of relax and guidelines to follow number one don't pounce when she's vulnerable this means you can't asker after she's gone through serious break-up you can't asker if she's having a really bad day or if she's crying it's always best to say something at a time when the girl seems most competent she's wearing her favorite dress she looks beautiful and you want to comment on that also it's important to say something with sincerity before moving in for a kiss or an awkward moment as the not least the final rule is to never say something to do something while intoxicated never a good thing if you're drunk you won't see the right thing you might ruin a friendship this is jessica claire and this is then to be more than friends