alright memory to I the five-day three-day rules so with women there's a five-day rule which I was completely unaware where you you hold out until the fifth date I dates what's wrong with five dates it depends it depends on the collection ship honestly um I think that this might be a little too conservative I mean what do you think you like not about yourself obvious of course they're classy lady but your friends some of them probably are classy so five states now you say my friends aren't but no your night not your best friend no and what do you think 5 5/8 7/8 10 a month two months I don't think by date is that conservative I think that's fine okay I maybe I'm being maybe have been crazy that honestly I mean the whole point behind this is it is it is in fact somebody myth it depends depends on the relationship but the relationship definitely did you know them before the date I think a lot of women one holdout and there's like this whole thing about all women want to make men hold out because they want to see if they'd wait around for that and really think it's about that I think a lot of women know that if you give it up immediately on the first date you haven't really given the guy a chance to get to know you yet so he's mostly gonna judge you based on your sexual performance rather than who you are which is risky business it is risky business so like the first time you sleep with that person you gotta be awesome yeah right and you don't you don't have as much pressure that guy knows you know that you guys connect on some other level yeah I think that's what it is %uh and then the guys have a three day rule where to meet someone at a bar or a club in you exchange numbers guys will wait three days before calling their oath true marches through Inc communication is so much more informal now honestly I mean like you can send a message on facebook you can send them a text that it doesn't have the social stigma i'd like call where you're locked into communication with the person I think that that's our communications fine before three days yeah I think it's fine before three days to I would get annoyed by the third day it why haven't you called me a loser bye bye love their dad be moved on like I would forget about the guy I think 38 so many guys totally a I me here either misled the reason that I don't agree with this whole five day thing or that or that you should russia and I was joking around or whatever but I i actually to like to weigh in the reason for that is who doesn't like sexual tension who doesn't like you know that that chemistry that you'll still have after the first time but it's not be the same you only have one for state you only have one first various things and once you pass that you can never go back so why not wait a week or two a week or two so what is your limit what's long issued way I mean it depends depends on the girl right like girls like me people would wait for for like years decades decade honestly but you know what I at the Senior Center put did do